Big Brothers Big Sisters of Long Island says it is in desperate need of male mentors
WESTBURY, N.Y. -- A Long Island organization is looking for a few good men to step up and become a big brother to a child.
Big Brothers Big Sisters Long Island says there is a desperate need for male mentors, and it turns out that shortage is nationwide.
"The reason I want a 'Big' is to have fun and enjoy life," 13-year-old Francisco said.
There has been a big plea from little boys, some of whom have been waiting for years for a volunteer big brother.
"I'm the only boy in my house," 9-year-old Tyler said.
More than 175 are waiting for a match, and are in need of support, mentoring, and friendship.
"Ever since COVID we have been seeing a lot more social and emotional need for children and we are getting a lot more families that are coming and enrolling their boys into our program," said Mark Cox, CEO of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Long Island.
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The organization has issued an urgent call for male volunteers on Long Island and around the country.
"Many of them are coming from single-parent households, being bullied at school, or just having some difficulties adjusting," said Fabiola Turner, chief program officer for Big Brothers Big Sisters of Long Island.
It's a four-hour-per-month commitment that pays dividends.
"My name is Quentin and this is my big," one little boy said.
Their smiles said it all -- Quentin and his big brother, Matt Hettler.
"For those folks that are sitting on the couch trying to decide whether or not this for this is for them, I encourage to take that leap of faith, because what you give you get back 10-fold," Hettler said.
But Quentin's sibling is on a long waiting list. Their single mother juggles eight kids.
"He gets upset. It takes a piece away from my heart. His twin sister got matched," parent Simone Smith.
Francisco is also waiting, after a previous big brother moved on to college.
"Because I work two jobs, it's so hard for me to find time to spend with Francisco," mother Carmen Roldan said.
It's a partnership that changes the trajectory of a young life, said Nassau County Police Commissioner Patrick Ryder, who is also a big brother.
"Brian ended up being in my wedding party. I mentored Brian throughout his whole life. He helped me when I bought my house, fixing things up. Then, he went into the Marine Corps. I hope I helped guide him about service and giving back," Ryder said.
The organization has the opposite problem when it comes to girls, with more big sisters than littles. Those life-changing matches are available to be made now.
Big brother and sister volunteers must be at least 18 years old, pass a background check, have a driver's license and a car, and commit to at least one year in the program.
For an application, please click here.
