What's the Rush?

As you raise your child, you keep an eye on when he begins to walk and talk. However, sometimes, your baby might be taking a little bit longer than others, and that can be worrisome. Jessica Hartshorn, Senior LIfestyle Editor for American Baby magazine offers some tips on how to cope with late bloomers.

The first thing to remember, is having a late bloomer is perfectly normal. The range of when children take their first steps and utter their first words is huge, and the number of late bloomers is greater than you might think.

Late language is the most common delay, affecting 1 in 10 kids. Learning to communicate can be very complicated because it requires understanding as well as speaking and these skills can develop differently. If your toddler is able to point to his nose when you ask him to, that's a sign that his skills are developing, even if he's not talking.

Think about whether you're giving your child a change to speak. Instead of filling in the blanks for your child by reading his non-verbal cues, wait for him to say "milk" or "juice" so that he can develop his vocab. You can also help your child by sharing books with him. Point and name things in the pictures, and ask your child to point and name.

Another mile stone is walking. The range of when children learn to walk is huge. Doctors explain that if a child has good muscle tone and reflexes, there isn't a need to worry. And there are many reasons a child may walk late including heredity, weight and personality. Some children are just happy to sit on the ground instead of trying to walk around.

If you are worried about your child's development, there are some things to consider. Lack of early language doesn't mean your child won't be bright. Remember, Albert Einstein didn't speak until well after his second birthday. Also, talk to your pediatrician. She can put your child's development in perspective. And when many parents worry about autism if their child isn't talking, doctors are more likely to check your child's hearing.

And finally, do your best to ignore peer pressure. When friends ask, "Is he still not walking," tune out the accusing tone. Explain that "the doctor isn't worried and I'm not either." Remember to look at the big picture and consider all the things your baby IS doing, whether it's playing peek-a-boo or blowing kisses. Development happens in spurts and plateaus. Enjoy the plateau your child is on now.

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by Jenn Eaker and Jessica Hartshorn